How to use Bondage Sex Toys to get the Perfect “O”

Whether you’re a bondage beginner, or the King or Queen of the bondage world, we’re sure you’ll still learn a thing or two to put into practice, that’ll really blow the socks off of your partner. Sex is all about enjoyment, and here at SXY we want our Sexperts to educate you to improve your sex lives. Here we’re going to let you into a few secrets and tips that you’d only undercover by working in the industry for many years.

Adding bondage sex toys to your bedroom fun can massively increase enjoyment for both partners, can intensify your orgasms, and will build trust in your relationship. Bondage sex toys are the absolute perfect addition as you can adapt nearly all bondage sex toys to your own preference.

Sex Tips of the Trade:

Having worked in the adult industry for plenty of years you begin to hear things that massively improve your sex life and this blog is going to relay some of the best findings from our time in the industry. This blog will focus on how to pull the perfect climax from your partner, utilising some of the world’s best bondage sex toys available.

When you’re trying to make your partner orgasm you must understand there’s different levels of climaxing. Some orgasms will make you curl the toes, others will make you scream in lust and enjoyment, others will bring you to silence and others will make your legs shudder uncontrollably. On the flip side of this some orgasms can fall short of expectations and our aim is to help you bring your partner to the best orgasms they’ve had, avoiding the smaller ones, because although sex isn’t everything, having a partner who’s great in bed creates long-term lovin’ longevity.

Side note - we apologise if your partner accuses you of playing away because you’ve improved so much in bed!

How to Perform Tease and Denial Play:

A key part of bedroom bondage play is simultaneously stimulating your partner mentally and physically. The mental aspect of bondage and bondage sex toys is influential in bringing your partner to those desirable mind-blowing orgasms. If you can mentally stimulate your partner, essentially, you’ve won half the battle and will probably bring them to unbelievable climaxes, even if you don’t perform at your best! So, here’s some bondage sex tips that’ll help you have the most amazing bondage experience together.

Our first SXY Sexpert tip is to begin with some teasing play. You may think “Ahhh I do that anyway”, but don’t be a fool and read on! Teasing your partner can come in all aspects and if you’re looking to pull that leg shuddering orgasm, this should begin way before the bedroom. This isn’t bondage, however our Sexperts were desperate to add this in here as in their experience this tactic has performed at pretty much a 100% success rate! They recommend using a Remote Control Sex Toy way before you even get into your house. For example, if you’re out at a restaurant, pop in a wireless vibrating love egg before handing your partner the remote. Enjoy working out you/your partner’s favourite settings by exploring the various vibrations and gaging reactions – Oooh, better stay quiet because the waiters coming… and so are you! Our Sexperts would recommend the 50 Shades of Grey Rechargeable Remote-Control Love Egg , however if you’re looking for a cheaper alternative check out the Happy Rabbit Remote Control Egg. These will create a level of enjoyment during your romantic meal, which will very quickly turn into excitement to get back home and into the sack!

Bondage Restraints, make tease and denial play much more exciting because you restrain your partner so they literally can’t get what they want. This heightens the mental stimulation as the mind is saying get what you want, however the body can’t oblige! Our Sexperts recommend the Under the Bed Restraints to help turn your bedroom into your own Redroom! You can indulge in tying your partner to each corner of the bed and letting the enjoyment begin! Under the Bed Restraints are one of the most popular bondage kits about because they turn any bed, whether it be a hotel one or your own, into a place of binding delights.

Further additions to aid mental stimulation can be done by letting their imagination race. Add a blindfold and your partner won’t be able to see what you have in store for them. A blindfold restricts your partners sight and in turn heightens the other senses, so now with the softest of touches you’ll hear gentle moans as they try and entice you in so they can get what they want – you don’t let them... YET!

We could go on all day about teasing your partner and warming up the perfect climax, but we think you get the picture. In short; use teasing as a tool to build your partner up with mental and physical stimulation which will bring them closer and closer to that desirable perfect orgasm.

One final addition that stimulates a large number of people is impact play. Impact play is having something touch you with a varying amount of force that feels good and is often a key part of any sub/dom play. The intensity of this act depends on the user’s preference, however there are a number of toys to improve this aspect of bondage and BDSM play, which vary from the usual spanking. These bondage sex toys come in the form of Paddles & Crops or Whips & Ticklers. You can choose from these two fantastic options depending on the type of stimulation you’re after.

Just to reiterate, you don’t have to use our scenario’s, as they’re just ideas for you. If you don’t know quite where to start with bondage sex toys, or if you’ve used all of your best technique’s years ago, be sure to check out our Beginners guide to bondage sex toys blog and learn a little more about bondage and BDSM sex toys. Alternatively, you can just let your mind wander whilst viewing some bedroom restraints, which are sure to add that extra heat into the bedroom; which might just be the key to unlock those mind-blowing climaxes, and remember to always play SXY…